Another list of random observations:

1. If you offer up interesting info, usually the other person will meet you halfway. 
2. We cannot control who we love, like, are attracted to, and what makes us happy.
3. We cannot control who loves us, likes, us, is attracted to us, and what makes them happy.
4. Singing and dancing make everything better. 
5. It's hard to really put yourself out there. 
6. Honesty is pretty much always the best policy. 
7. "Fake it until you feel it" can totally work. 
8. Sometimes it is hard to find the positive aspect or silver lining. Still try. It is there. 
9. Sometimes friendships are like relationships. They can take nurturing, hard discussions, and honesty. The good ones will understand this. You don't need the bad ones. 
10. Being a strong woman (or person) is scary to a lot of people. But the ones who aren't scared by that are the ones who are worth your time.