Mean Girls

I truly value my girlfriends. I have to say I always have, but lately they have been a particularly wonderful thing for me to have. Today though, I was forced to remember (after it simply popping up in my Facebook Newsfeed) that there have been a few girlfriend relationships that somehow went sour. 

The hardest part about losing these people is that it seemed like several people in my life over the past few years turned against me, all of a sudden, with little or no warning. It is still confusing to me to this day. I've had many conversations with others trying to figure out what happened or what I did and I'm at a loss. The only answer I can come up with is that at some point I was maybe too honest with them. Interesting that honesty seems to be such a fault. 

It's hard feeling like someone's enemy when I never wanted to be in that place (and still don't). I struggle with trying to let go and knowing that I'm okay without people who would do that to me anyways. I know that ultimately I've just got to let it go.

It's always hard to let things go when you saw a glimmer of how great it could be. 

This post is for the many amazing women I've met over the course of my life who have shown me what strength and love truly are.